Our first neighborhood drama….
Friday, March 20th, 2009Ok, so here is the story……The day we moved in we met our next door neighbors. I was so happy that they had a daughter one year younger than Nicki, YAY she would have a friend.
They hit it off right away, the first night they really got to meet they had a sleep over. It was great. When we met the parents they filled us in on the neighborhood kids. They said there is a brother/sister that live down the street and we should stay away from the lil girl…she is 5. I guess she is very unruly!
Anyways, 2 days ago Nicki and her friend want to use some spray paint to make a “bird house”. I say it like that because it turned out to be the farthest thing from a bird house. Both Nicki and her friend have both used spray paint in the past so I didn’t think anything of it. Nicki came in that night COVERED in spray paint. All over her legs and her hands looked like she had a latex glove on, that is how thick it was on her hands. We had no more paint thinner so she had to just wash her hands and peel it off. Her friend got in a little trouble too so when she came over the next day they wanted to paint again but her friend was not allowed to use it. Well they decided to use regular paint and paint brushes.
Well, the next thing I see is the girls in the front yard playing with the neighborhood kids. I saw Nicki’s friend walking around with the spray paint but for SOME REASON didn’t think anything bad about it since I had given them permission to use it. Didn’t think anything inappropriate was being done with it.
About 30 min later I get a knock on the door and this nasty looking man with no teeth is standing at my door. So I answer and he starts rambling something that I still don’t fully know what he said but for the most part I understood that Nicki was running around spray painting his daughters hands. His daughter is the 5 yr old hellion.
So I IMMEDIATELY tell Nicki to get in the house. As I am telling her to come in, the “father” starts yelling at my daughter right in front of me. OH HELL NO! So I told the man that she was my daughter and that I could handle the yelling. I said I understand you are upset that he hands got spray painted but that he could leave now and let me reprimand my daughter. So he left.
Well I was LIVID, at this point Nicki was grounded for the rest of the week. She was also required to write an apology to the father down the street for all that happened. Nicki did tell me at one point that her friend did the spray painting but Nicki is the oldest kid out there, she should have known better. That is why she was in trouble.
As she was writing the apology, I get a knock at my door. It is the next door neighbor and his daughter(Nicki’s friend). She is at my door apologizing for Nicki getting in trouble for what she had done.
So the TRUE story goes as follows:
The lil girl down the street wanted Nicki and her friend to spray paint her scooter. When they didn’t want to she said if you don’t I will kick, hit and punch you. Since Nicki’s friend still didn’t, the girl became violent. So when Nicki’s friend put a little spray paint on her scooter I guess the lil girl freaked out and started rubbing her hands all in the wet paint. That is why she told her father the girls spray painted her hands. I know it seems crazy of a story but as I was talking to the neighbor parents, Nicki and her friend….the father of the 5 yr old came walking down the street to apologize to me for accusing my daughter of doing anything and he said he understood that his daughter is violent and was at fault.
Ok so all that was settled but my problem still lies in the fact that they were supposed to use the paint for a project in the backyard not run around the neighborhood with it. We have only been here 2 weeks, I don’t want to get a bad reputation already.
The next door neighbors were not made at us and all seems to be ok. We told the girls that if the lil 5 yr old came down to play with them and she became violent that they needed to come inside and tell one of us.
Oh my, I was so stressed. My blood was boiling with Nicki and I just felt like all was happening at once. Even with the paint Nicki was supposed to use a paint brush with, she managed to get all over herself.
And so it begins………



























