We had our first official visit from a speech therapist. I had not heard from anyone from the last visit. The initial “let’s see if you even need our help” visit. They said they have 30 days from that visit to get the approval to work with us and such and this week or maybe next week would be the 30 days.
I had not heard anything from anyone until this morning, I received a call from the speech therapist and she said she had a cancellation today at 5pm and wondered if she could come by. I immediately said yes.
Lil Tony is just not concerned with talking and it is getting a little frustrating. Whenever we are in public I feel like there is something wrong with him because he babbles but there are NO WORDS or familiar sounds whatsoever. He just points and babbles in his own little language.
Well the speech therapist came today and I think things went really well. We sat down at the table….me, Lil Tony and Katie(I think that was her name). She pulled out a bunch of different activities, puzzles, play doh and a memory game.
She wasn’t able to get him to talk but she was able to get him to respond to her. He actually played with her, he is usually pretty shy around people. Especially when they first meet. After a few minutes of her showing him things and giving him time to warm up to her, he was doing just fine.
She seemed to want to focus on one word at a time, today she chose “more”. She did some activities with him to understand what she was trying to say. Like I said he didn’t speak but the therapist was quite surprised with him. She said the way he was acting was not how she expected the 1st day. She thought it would take a couple visits for him to start imitating her. I keep telling people that he is really smart and I truly believe he knows what he is doing. Why he doesn’t want to talk, I don’t think I could understand. I mean I know it may be easier for him but in some ways it’s not easier. We are now refusing to give him things, juice or snacks. Also he is getting very angry with us and vice versa. I wish he would just understand that if he just said the things we asked him to that his days would be so much easier.
I felt good though that Katie thought we were definitely going to make good progress. She sees that he is understanding and thinking about what she is telling him and trying to get him to do.
I told her next week would be a bad week to come back but I didn’t want to delay another visit so I made sure we had a scheduled day for her to come back before she left. She gave me some things to work on with him and she will return on the 15th. I am really excited to see what kind of progress we will make. One of our friends had to take their 2 yr old son to a speech therapist too and he was saying basic words in about a month. We will see.
I will update you when I have the next visit. Happy Thursday!